Child(ish) Advice: A Reintroduction

Child(ish) Advice turns six this year. And as we gear up for a fresh wave of content, I find myself reflecting on where we began and how far the blog has come.

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I Think We Need a Tutor

Every night, not unusually, Troy and I read to A&Z before bed. We had done a bit of a library purge and made sure that they had a variety of Early Reader and Beginner Chapter books, having already gone through all of our picture books. Now that the girls were older, I wanted to make sure the girls were being challenged by the material, instead of reading the same books over and over.

We switched to reading aloud together and let the girls alternate pages or passages. Thatโ€™s when what used to be an understandable gap turned into one of our kids falling behind.

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Things We Loved: July 2025

Itโ€™s our last week of summer vacation. Weโ€™ve bought our school supplies, gotten our end-of-summer haircuts, and Open House is in a couple days. To close out the season, weโ€™re sharing our end-of-summer Things We Loved before jumping into Back-To-School and regularly scheduled content next week.

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Summer To-Do List: 2025

Happy Last Day of School (for us, at least)!

Since I loved our Summer To-Do List lessons from last year, weโ€™re doing it again. Each summer as our kids get older, they become more and more capable. I also feel more and more determined as a parent to stretch their comfort zones. Both Mary and I have something new up our sleeves for our kids this summer.

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Our Rage Room Mom date

Yay! New blog feature.

Weโ€™ve written extensively on PPD and how important it is for moms to take time for themselves. This recharges our social battery and keeps us balanced, so our entire lives arenโ€™t completely ruled by our kids.

Looking forward, I came across a teen parenting account that said that one of the reasons teens stop looking to their parents for advice and quality time is because their parents arenโ€™t fun. During high school, my parents never really had friends. They would work, make dinner, and watch something on the couchโ€ฆeveryโ€ฆdamn…night. I love an introverted bed rot, but seriously no other people anywhere in the radar? Not even a best friend that Iโ€™ve ever heard of?

I feel like most of the parents I appreciated growing up were those that had their own social lives; they played more roles than just being a parent or an employee. They had interests and hobbies and would go out for girls nights. Their personal schedules were just as involved as their kidsโ€™. Overall, I feel like their homes were just lighter; and consequently, their villages were bigger.

So, Mary and I would like to propose a trade. We will exchange two playdate reviews, for two Mom date reviews. We love doing fun stuff with our kids, but weโ€™d also like to try out some fun, new things that are a little more age-appropriate for us.

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