Gifting the Village

“It takes a village to raise a child” is one of those sayings that sounds nice until you become a parent. Then, you realize just how true it is.

Behind every thriving child is a whole cast of supporting characters. There are teachers who spark curiosity, therapists who celebrate hard-earned milestones, coaches who build confidence, caregivers who provide comfort, and countless others who cheer from the sidelines every step of the way.

While the holidays naturally inspire us to focus on family and friends, they’re also the time to recognize the people who make up our children’s village. These are the individuals who invest their time, energy, expertise, and heart into helping our kids learn, grow, and thrive throughout the year; extending far beyond the classroom, playing field, therapy room, or after-school program.

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Things We (Would) Love: Mary’s Gift Guide 2026

Is anyone else just kinda meh about the new gift options lately?

So much online Gift Guide content seems like the same old stuff repeated across 50 influencers. Usually we’re like “will my (insert loved one) even like this?”.

I’m sure everyone loves receiving new and improved socks or yet another body wash set. And no shade if you really do want the AI sticker box or kids table saw. But for Child(ish) Advice, we haven’t really seen anything new that hits that sweet spot of 1) fun, 2) OT-driven, and 3) won’t end up forgotten two weeks later.

So to give ourselves a break and maybe push our past Guides a little bit (2025, 2024, 2023), we’re doing our usual Things We (Would) Love posts and giving you something a little different leading up to Thanksgiving and the holidays.

Enjoy!

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House Slytherin

…Or perhaps in Slytherin
You’ll make your real friends,
Those cunning folks use any means
To achieve their ends.
– Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone

Thanks to Harry’s perspective, many readers associate Slytherin with the villains of the story. In reality, the house is far more complex than its reputation suggests. While its founder, Salazar Slytherin, held the controversial belief that magical education should be reserved for students from magical families, his personal views do not define the values of the house he created.

At its core, Slytherin was founded qualities that can be used for both great good and great harm depending on the choices of the individual. These include:

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All-In: Inclusivity

Helga Hufflepuff, the founder of Hufflepuff House and known for valuing hard work, patience, loyalty, and fairness, is also remembered for her inclusive philosophy.

While the other founders selected students based on specific talents, Helga welcomed anyone with good character and a willingness to learn; a philosophy that still defines her house.

Hufflepuffs push back against one of the most basic human instincts: the tendency to favor “our own group” and quietly dismiss everyone else. They welcome anyone, bridge social divides, and reject elitist sorting altogether.

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House Hufflepuff

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You might belong in Hufflepuff,
Where they are just and loyal,
Those patient Hufflepuffs are true
And unafraid of toil
… – Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone

Oh, those good‑natured Hufflepuffs. The Sorting Hat isn’t looking for brilliance, boldness, or cunning in this house; it’s looking for character. Hufflepuff welcomes those whose goodness is steady, practical, and dependable, even when they show it quietly. A young witch or wizard is sorted here when their core qualities reflect the traits Helga Hufflepuff appreciated most:

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