Same But Different: Finding a K-5 School

| Mary Stoffel, MOT, OTR/L

When our then‑zoned elementary school closed a little over a year ago, the ripple effect was immediate. Our parent group began exploring every possible alternative, from moving to another county to researching private schools to digging into charter and magnet options. Watching that scramble unfold made me realize just how many educational paths families navigate today. It raised a bigger question about why so many different school models exist and whether choosing one during the elementary years truly shapes a child’s long‑term experience; ergo, this post.

In our metro area, there is an overabundance of school options; which for a parent isn’t a bad problem to have. When parents choose a school, they’re choosing more than just a building. It’s a community, a childhood environment, and the place where our kids will spend more than 1,000 hours each year.

Public, private, charter, and magnet schools all function differently, and knowing what sets them apart makes it easier for parents to determine the best fit for their kids.

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Child(ish) Reads: Never Enough

| Patti Webb

This book came out three years ago. I didn’t jump to review it because at the time, our kids were only 5. That’s a bit young to start worrying about achievement culture. Now, even though high school and applying to colleges are far off, there are still big parts of this book that speak to child development; both academically and personally.

The book also gives more nuance and research to our education system, and sheds more light on that pesky Gen Z: Cautionary Tale thing. It’s a great book to start your school year.

Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic-and What We Can Do About It by Jennifer Breheny Wallace.

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Setting the Standard(ized Testing)

| Mary Stoffel, MOT, OTR/L

After a great first week back to school, our kids will jump right into iReady standardized tests to set their baselines for the year. From i‑Ready diagnostics to Amira reading fluency, spelling screeners and even gifted screeners, it feels like the expectations are already high.

However, schools emphasize that these tests aren’t about pressure or performance. They’re simply tools to understand where each child is starting and what support they may need to thrive throughout the year.

Early and frequent student testing isn’t unusual. American students are tested more than students in any other developed country. Recent comparisons show that the average U.S. student takes about 112 required standardized tests before graduating high school, far above international norms. In grades 3 through 8 alone, children often sit for 20 to 25 different standardized assessments each year, not including practice tests or test‑prep weeks. And unlike other countries, the U.S. layers federal, state, district, and benchmark tests, creating an unusually dense testing schedule.

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Work from Home: Learning Spaces

| Mary Stoffel, MOT, OTR/L

By the time kids hit fourth grade, school suddenly demands more from their home setup. My son now spends real time at his desk: homework, online assignments, supplemental workbooks, you name it.

The problem is that his desk has slowly transformed into a geological dig site of papers, half-finished personal projects, and an ever-growing collection of knick‑knacks and doodads. Every time I remind him to tidy it up, the clutter returns like it has a life of its own. The result is that he abandons his desk altogether and completes his written tasks and assignments at the dinner table instead. What is happening?

Which brings me to this thought: What do kids actually need for learning at home? While it may sound like a question with an obvious answer, it becomes surprisingly relevant once we look at how and where the academic work actually gets done.

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Back to School Month: New Beginnings

| Mary Stoffel, MOT, OTR/L

We’ve been doing Back to School month for three years. In that time, we’ve written about navigating new schools, new friends, and new teachers.

But while open houses and curriculum nights might seem same old-same old at this point, there are always small changes and new starts each academic year. And even if everything about school remained the same, our kids (and ourselves) are constantly growing and changing.

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